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Tuesday, 30 August 2016

Pain behind the Pearl and the Struggle behind its shine

Is anyone of you feeling very low by thinking about your troubles in your life it might be the career issue, it might be the study issue and maybe some other. I know most of us go through this rough-phase once, twice, thrice and sometimes like a lot in our life. I felt the same with my career settlement, until I heard this story. We all need this story that keeps us in a right way. Which is also helping me to move on. I'm sharing it with all of you, who are skating on gloominess. For sure after reading this story you will definitely build up some boost of confidence. 
                    Nature! Which is amazingly created by the Lord with so many wonders. Everything in this nature conspires something. Pearl formation is one of the praised secret of the nature. When I took a chance to hold one pearl in my childhood for the first time, after taking a touch on that, I just wondered with it's shimmering iridescence, lustre and soft inner glow . Me as a question bank (always grabbing cluster of questions in my brain ha ha....) I just struck with the questions like how the pearl was made?, how it has that much smooth texture ? etc....etc.
            Now as a science student I figured out the answers to those questions. The greatest answer from me is, just like shell of clam, pearl is the minute crystalline form of calcium carbonate, which has been deposited in concentric layers. The life the pearl is magical. This story has been so touching and played a very important role, as a boost of confidence in my life.
               The story frozen up not only in my brain and also took a way into my heart too. Dear reader don’t look at me with straight face yah.. yah.... I'm heading over to the story.
                  Note:The story maybe somewhat lengthy but worth reading. 
                                (I narrated the story by adding some of  my own views)
Introduction to Oyster shell: Familiarly known as shell in which a miraculous event, that is birth of a pearl, truly happens. Oyster shell was a closed shell without allowing anything into it because, any foreign particle may cause irritation to the shell. 
 Here we go,
     Once there lived an oyster shell, named oyster. It was very elegant with its bright luminant surface as it is always immersed in lucid flow of water. The oyster always plays with the waves of water and sometimes it may comes along with the waves on to the shore . 

                    One day as usual it come across to lie down on the shore, as it is a famous beach which is filled with visitors all over the shore and with the giggling sounds of children. The oyster was enjoying everything around her. Suddenly a big wave took her into the sea, that journey was unusual. Within the blink of an eye oyster was caught up by the big waves and the journey has no stopping’s and meanwhile the oyster noticed that the journey is due to flood. She lost her hope on her life but somewhere with a little hope it was carrying on with the journey and it was also thinking about the people on the shore * Kindness*. During this course of time large wind opened her shell and forcefully the oyster closed herself as it want to take every trail to live in this nature. Finally the waves calm down and the sea came back to its original state.
                The oyster itself felt that “by God’s grace I got my life back”, when it was going back to think about the flood journey, she was feeling something uncomfortable in her shell. Then she went back in to the flashback and noticed that during the journey a grain of sand entered into her shell. She was totally disappointed and due the grain of sand, the discomfort 
turned into pain.
                 The pearl was so sad and started praying for God, Oh God!  why this is happening to a me?  Why only me? Am I not precious to you? Am I a sinner ?
Am I having no right to grab single bit of happiness?

         After lot of prayers God answered her, my dear child! Don’t be afraid of anything. I blessed everyone on this earth with special powers, talents and courage. Just welcome and accept every challenge and Have courage for great sorrows in your life. Use your power and hard work to land the pain into an amazing achievement.     
Definitely our prayers are going to be  answered
in right time
          Oyster tried every possible way to expel the irritant (grain of sand) from her shell but it was failed. Finally it was decided to treat the irritant in a right way and in a defending way.
       It just started producing a layer of smooth viscous liquid, called *“nacre” around the irritant. 
Nacre, which is very smooth gel. It covers every part of irritant and made it to mingle with soft gel in the shell so there is no pain to the shell. 
                    Every time when the oyster struggled with pain started producing smooth gel around the irritant again and again.
               The more it struggles, the irritant acquires more and more layers around it until, a very smooth textured thing is formed. Which is now onwards mingled with the soft gel of the oyster shell. The formed smooth structured one is, the precious pearl"And now then onwards no pain, no struggle due to the irritant as it became part of it.

Then the voice of God gave a message to her saying that,  
        " If you had not accepted the changes and challenges then you will be just an oyster with no pearl and with no importance. The power of your skills may become vain now you became an oyster, who will be in the top, which is precious not only to me but also to every one.
           Now the *God* gave the answers to the questions of oyster, 
               Why only me? ----------------------*Because I chosen you.*
         Am I not precious to you? ---------------*Your more precious than anyone else.*
     Am I a sinner? -------------------------------*No! You’re my lovable child.*
Am I having no right to grab single bit of happiness? -------- *No! You have blessing to enjoy more happiness than you expected.* 

                      Finally from the grain of sand, with the pain, struggle, compassion and hard work of oyster shell, precious pearl is born. Totally the birth of a pearl is truly a secret miraculous event in the nature.
         The more is the pain of the shell, the more is the shine of pearl.
Coming to the point,
        Nature sometimes coaches us brilliant lessons yet we fail to heed. Just close your eyes and replace yourself with the oyster shell and replace grain of sand with the difficulty you are facing now.
         Every day you may woke up with some regrets weighing down on your shoulders. It’s not the size, shape, weight or quantity that counts but how well you carry them and how many times you tried to defeat it and made affords to stand strong on your feet. When you feel every trial bouncing off your ceiling, instead nursing your pain, just wink and smile at the difficulty and say "hey difficulty I definitely turn you as my achievement" and find freedom in choosing to cling, to your faith, hope and trust on our God. Just believe that He’s preparing something really beautiful for you to have. Today's struggle is definitely sign of tomorrows shine.              
                Trust me this story has changed my life, my thinking and my desires. It made me to grow strong in faith and also I own something really beautiful right now – That is Happiness, which is on the board to your heart too- just grab it with your pure heart. Stay blessed and be happy.
                                                                                                                                                                                    With smiles 
            Vinny Evelyn

Life is like a circle-

[I know the title might confuse you a bit until you get to the ending part of the story.]
These are the words from a grieved heart, which could not bear the pain after listening to the story of a Grandma.
When I randomly going through social networking site I read this story and felt like……. *shrugs*
                  Every time when I start to pen down here, I always choose to be very waggish but today I'm continuing with a straight sort of face.
The story goes like this,
Mother                A woman, who gave her entire life to brought up her son. She went through so many hurdles and gave him the best position in this society. Now, she was leading her life very happily, under the roof of her son’s house.  One day, she was playing with her grand children; her son sat near to her couch and has been waiting to say something to her. She asked her son “Is there any problem?”..He said “no”, but as a mother she noticed that he wants to say something to her.
And the conversation went like this,
Son: ma!
Mother:  *thinking that he might be in some trouble* Tell me. I don’t bother if the issue is tough to handle. In your childhood I'm only suffered to handle everything but now you are there, giving strength to me.   
Son: *setting his throat* Ma! Actually we want to----oooo….oooo
Mother:*lifted her eye brows* plz hurry up I want to play with my grandson’s.
Son: We….weeee….we want to join you in an old age home
Mother: *silent* *upset*
Mother: *cried silently* (came back with her trolley) I want to join in old age home today only.
Son: ma! Ma…… I don’t want to send you todaa…….Interrupts
Mother: no! I just want to leave now….please no words *hurts*
Don't leave your parents
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                          The son joined her in an old age home. And he had struck with his busy work. He couldn't have even time to make a visit over there.  
Few months later,
 He got a call from Old age home…..in his so called hurry….burry life he didn't even lift the phone.
They made another call……he lifted the phone.
Son: hello!
Old age home crew member: hello! We are calling from old age home. Your mother wants to talk with you.
Son: yeah! I will make a call after a while……I'm totally busy now….. Interrupts
Old age home crew member: *angry* okay! But she was in a serious condition. It’s your wish to talk with her or not.
Son: what?
 He started driving ……..now his heart was beating very fast…… he was remembering everything from his childhood……*Love*………hands are shaking….finally he drove there with throbbing palpitation.
Parents Love

Son: *Crying*
Mother: dear don’t cry. I'm always there wi….with you…….*not able to speak*
Son: plz! Don’t say like that ma…. Doctors are coming and I will make you alive and I……I eeee…I will take you with me and I’ll make care for you.
Mother: Thank You! But…… I want to say…….interrupts
Son: tell…tell me
Mother: here in this old age home…… we people find cockroaches in our food, fans are not working, sometimes we lived without water, we are unable to bend our knee but we just slept on the floor…………………interrupts
Son: *Cries silently* till now why don’t you say all these things to me ?.
Mother: I don’t want to disturb you. Your children take you as their role model………and they may drove you here…….. I don’t want my son to live in this uncomfortable home *Love*…..so, Sponsor money and make it as good as possible before you take a walk into this home.
Son: Ma…..ma…..Cried a lot. 
                                       *but no hope*
Son: crying ...... saying to himself that *Old age home maybe your next Home*.
Helping hand
    * Life is like a circle what you did to others will definitely surround you. If you think about old age home you will definitely drove back to old age home. 
        I realized that some people are affected with the disease Affluenza. In this story the son cried a lot but no use. No matter what’s the scenario is, His mother didn't left him in an orphanage despite of her burdens; she sacrificed her whole life to lift him up in this society but what he did to his mother? He just offered old age home.  He realized the importance of his mother lately but........you know what happened.  
                                                     So, Do things when time is in your watch. Give them your caring hand as a token of gratitude.
    With Compassionate Heart
      Vinny Evelyn 

There is magic in everything :) :)

There is magic behind butterfly wings
Yessssssssss! I believe in magics.
                                           Do you believe?
       Whether your answer may be Yes! Or No! ........ Just make some time to read my article. *smiles*
There is magic behind the design of the butterfly wings
There is magic in smile of a little baby
There is magic in turning of seedling into a plant
There is magic in Music
There is magic in Music

There is magic behind the color of every flower

There is magic in Kindness, Love, Giving, Taking, Helping, Happiness, Music ……………..
Magics around us
   Every time when I look at anything I feel like some magic is there in each one…..
                       Totally, There is magic in everything around us.
                                           And some one is there behind every magic!

Someone is there behind every magic?
In my childhood I think that, all these magic’s are done by fairies and I searched for the
fairies in my childhood that's a different story (If you want read that find here ….)hmm of course oops! I didn't find them but today I totally realized that who are behind that magic’s……..by this post I want share my views on those magic’s.

There is magic in smile: (the magic filled smile)
When we see the smiles of a little baby definitely we felt like the purest thing on this world is smile…..It will refresh our mood.
[This is happened when I was getting back home in a bus after a long tiring day with my project work]
              One day I'm returning back from my college I'm totally tired with my project work, in the bus even there is no gap to drop a sand Gray ..........after so much waiting I got a seat and of course I got squeezed between 2 jumbo sized people, with me now total 3 jumbos on the seat haha ;) ;) hoo! Just stop there! Don’t laugh much…I was just little chubby that’s it....... umm! *giggles*. 
                  After grabbing my place I was totally struck with the flying thoughts. Suddenly my hair was pulled back, as I'm flying with my thoughts, I don’t even saw who pulled my hairs. I unknowingly tucked my hair back to my ear and went back into my thoughts.
*Smiles*           Do you know what happened? 
Someone pulling my hairs again and again…..with a tired and straight sort face I turned my head…….. After that, edge of my lips took the curve *Smile* and my tired weird face turned into glowing one. You know!One little kid stretched his hands out towards me. I just pampered with his looks and I took him…..his little cute face made me to laugh again and again and my cheeks *blushed*. I just shared my chocolate with him.
*Smiles*                            Every day it took 30min to reach my stop but that day I felt like I reached my stop with in 30 sec. I want to play with him some more time…. I got an idea - to continue my journey till the next stop [clover no?] but I'm tired.  So, I dropped my plan. When I'm going to stepping down the bus, that cute little one with his little hand gave me a hand shake and waved his hand saying bye….bye…
                                  I was totally refreshed with his smile.
                                      Just think who’s behind that magic of smile?
There are so many magical Languages:   [ Hey! don't look at me with straight face.....just continue reading]
Believe in the magic of kindness
               We all have had born language skills since our first breath on this earth. We all know these languages. They have no scripts but they can understand by everyone of us.
       Do you know what are those languages? 
They are!........They are............,
                   Kindness, love, happiness, friendship, togetherness etc., which the deaf can hear, blind can see, a poor can give, ultimate richness may couldn't buy with money, a kid can give a adult can take.
Believe in the magic of *Love*                       Yes! We are masters in all these languages. The best example for this is, a little kid just feels comfortable in the hands of his mother and pampers on the shoulders of his father.

When we see an old grandparent, who is feeling hungry we definitely opens our wallet *Kindness*
When we saw tears in our friends eyes, our eyes burst out with tears *Love*
When you with someone during their happy times and also supports someone during their odd days  *Friendship*                                                                                                                       
Believe in the magic of kindness

Believe in the magic of *Friendship*
Believe in the magic of *Togetherness*
When someone smiles at you and you took curve on your face *Togetherness*
The happiness after helping some one.*Fulfilled heart*

Probably we all have had experienced all these magics.*Smiles*

Believe in the magic of *Love*

               Could you imagine who's behind all those magics?   Think yaar!Think!
            Just consider yourself, you are busy with your work and didn't even observed the colourful rainbow........then where is the magic, If you don't observe?
              If you don’t see the colour of flowers, Glowing stars, little baby smiles, designs of butterfly wings with your *magical heart* everything fades out and everything seems normal. You are seeing everything with your magical heart-Your heart is behind every magic. Most significantly the one lies behind all these magic’s is you , your heart and your thoughts.                               
              *Those who  believe in magic’s will definitely find them*
Magic           Yesssssssss! The magic is in you, in your heart 
Magic                                                    The magic is in us,
              in our hearts
There is Magic in you   
           Life sometimes closes our eyes, probably our busy schedules in life which didn't allow us to look at these simple, precious and priceless magics. And we may feel that everything looks fading.  Sometimes everything seems black and white……Just! Getup! And with your *magical heart* paint everything around you with bright magical colors. [I paint my world with pink color ‘cause I love it….mm ;)*silly*].  
              Life sometimes takes us through the rough road; it only means that you’re heading towards something PRECIOUS AND BEAUTIFUL. Live in the moment, smile as much as you can and say “I love you life”.
Come on join with me,
              I'm going to stand up firm if my legs get shaking. I’m going to have more faith even when my wishes seem to be neglected. I want to keep my eyes open for the very best part of my life...
          Hey! Getup! See already you are surrounded with some magic! Hold it tight.
And say with loud voice,
              Life! I will shake my fist at you with *my faith and with my magical heart*.
**I Hope you have heaps of magic in your life with your Magical heart**.   
A little magic can take you through the long way.

    A little magic can take you through the long      way.

             Keep your heart with magical thoughts................
             Spread your wings to fly Magically......................
                                                            Don't forget the magic around You!

 With magical heart,
Vinny Evelyn 
                         This post is dedicated to Tangy Tuesday Picks at Blogadda. 

Friday, 26 August 2016

Do Little things with loads of love and Stay in your friend's heart forever

               (Do Little things with loads of love and Stay in your friend's heart forever)
Now a day’s our calendars are dotted with busy schedules, watches on our hands are running very fast. The pit stops to meet our friends would have been few and far between. 
Sometimes there maybe no chances to meet them but I have one idea by this we can meet our lovable friends *Through our heart* *With our thoughts*. Just take some time from your watch and remember some childhood memories which are very close to your heart. Definitely you feel very delightful with that.
                                             Friendship- Together forever.
                 Yesterday I got a thought of going back to my childhood memories, now we have so many friends but the childhood one's remains in our heat forever. This feeling is not the first encounter with my thoughts about my friends who took special place, more often I got frozen up by thinking about their care and love showered on me. All these things tempted me to look back and remember one of the best situations I faced in my childhood.
                 Warm, fuzzy memories are great. They usually bring a smile to our face and a little pep to our step and swings in our hearts!..... If I continue like this, it will breakaway elsewhere. 
      When I entered into my school I found one friend, she was very lovable and caring. she was ever close to my heart.
Every time when I look back, I felt like she is my best buddy forever. We may  distended miles apart but I believe that our hearts are filled with friendship that we shared during our school days, togetherness that we enjoyed, jokes we shared and the love we showered on each other.   
               Dear Friend! You may not be my side but every little thing I learnt from you like sharing, giving, kindness , friendship, your advises are always with me and in my heart . And I know you are hoping to meet me.
Here I'm sharing one situation which is very close to my heart:              
    I'm always busy with the habit of reading fairytale stories (Not subject books *Giggles*). This habit of reading landed in a crazy way. 

After reading the story of a Fairy having wings,  as a crazy girl (I'm like very quite looking and innocent girl but with my close friends you will find naughty Vinny;) ha....ha) I got a thought of having my wings. I don’t even slept by thinking about wings. Next day I went to my school and told about my wish to my friend, she was just surprised and tempted to have wings for herself also. (that’s the talent of explaining thing in a right way)
Clover no ;). Ha ha.......
The conversation went in this way,
Me: hey! You know I read the story about fairy it was just amazing. Hey! you know fairy with her wings flies everywhere .*Excitement* 
My friend: ho! *Surprise*
Me: Hey! Hey! I want wings re. If we have wings we will go anywhere to play, we have new friends with wings and we have much more fun.(This explanation flew like a liquid for 15 min.)
My friend: yeah! Vinny! But how?
 Me: I have a plan *Brilliant*. We have to search for the fairies and should ask them to bless us with wings. (I felt this is Brilliant thought in my childhood but now *Giggles*)
My friend: Yeah! Yeah!
Two days we are totally in search for fairies but didn't found even one.
My friend: I don’t have any hope to find fairies maybe they don't exist.
Me: No…..no…. * me with strong voice* I  read it on the book they have wings. They have been living here only..... but hiding from us.
 After few days we vexed with searching
Me:  whatever it may be I want wings.*niggles*
My friend: Hooooo…….definitely. (Actually she wants to fulfil my dream of having wings)*Friendship*
               Then she did like this,  
                This picture is from Google images randomly I got it.               
Those wings may not gave me a chance to fly. But the moment cherished in my heart forever. *Love with togetherness is the best combination to cherish*
                    Now, I can fly with the happiness and with the love of my friend towards me.
 I lost her contact details but I hope that we are going to meet one day with the thread of friendship and togetherness we shared.
                                                                               Friendship- Together forever.
PS: Do little things with lots of love and stay in yours friends heart forever.
‘This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.’
Prompt:‘A Story Yet Unwritten'

                             With Smiles
                              Vinny Evelyn

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